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  • Pippinpro's Avatar
    6 posts since Jul '08
    • Hi, i need some advise.
      Well, I saw a girl in my lecture hall, she's sweet and my kinda dream girl.... i dun look good, nor am i rich...
      I been observing her since the start of my course.. now that my course in ending... should i approach her??
      I had the thought of appraoching her, but factors pulled me back.... prehaps she got a boyfriend etc etc...

      I dun no her name, prehaps lol i noe nothing, i only noe shes my dream girl... sad...

      What should i do.. my course is ending in a couple of days time.. maybe i might see her in the next course.. but chances of meeting is quite slim, but still, theres a chance.. i afraid if i got rejected... if we are going for different course at least i dun feel so awkward.. but if we were the same lecture.. i will be like 1 year of embarrasement...

      Question for Bros: Will you appraoch and how will you appraoch??

      Question for Sisters: When you meet such appraoch will you accept?
      Dear Brothers and Sister i need your help serious..
  • Karma88's Avatar
    957 posts since Mar '08
    • Just go and ask lar . After lecture when she walking out of class ask . Or during lecture sit near her and talk to her make friends .

      But since u finishing ur course . I think u should just say hi to her and get to know her then ask number .

      If u hum ji dont ask . U`ll keep on thinking " wat if i ask will she be my gf ? " or " wha if i ask and she accept me we now steady liao " .

      So just ask if she reject then reject lar . At least u know she not interesed in you then u can move on to your next dream girl .

  • cApitaland's Avatar
    4,221 posts since Sep '05
    • does she know u exist ? try those textbook instances haha

      like bump into her accidentally den start frm there haha

  • Karma88's Avatar
    957 posts since Mar '08
    • Originally posted by cApitaland:

      does she know u exist ? try those textbook instances haha

      like bump into her accidentally den start frm there haha

      U must bump until she fall down .

      Drop labtop .

      Then say eh i buy u one new one . Give me your number .

  • Pippinpro's Avatar
    6 posts since Jul '08
    • xia la lap top expensive sia...

      can drop pencil case anot..

      pencil break i still can pay... laptop drop i think i got to go sell backside =X

  • 00king00's Avatar
    100 posts since Jun '08
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    Hello Kitty's Avatar
    19,186 posts since Dec '99
  • 00011000's Avatar
    289 posts since Feb '07
    • Walk up to her and drop something, pretend you don't notice that you've dropped it. Wait for her to pick it up and than start a conversation. Start with something small, 
      drop a pencil.....not notice yet?
      dropa book..... .not notice yet?
      drop an umbrella...not notice yet?
      drop $50 note, sure work one. 

  • Pippinpro's Avatar
    6 posts since Jul '08
    • yeah not rich, not handsome..

      no chance hor? or chances is like 0.1%?

      i also thought of like that...

  • 00011000's Avatar
    289 posts since Feb '07
    • Actually some gals behave very strange... they go for ugly guy one.....guy who they think they can trust and be confortable with....

      For not handsome, can go for cosmetic surgery wat? 

      For no money, when you are working, work very hard and smart lah.

  • whiskers's Avatar
    264 posts since May '06
    • Dun worry... when u graduate got new gals come.... you forget soon.... Got fate will meet...

  • bb_mm's Avatar
    68 posts since Jun '07
    • Just take it easy man! Make friends only what.. don't need to think too much. =) all the best!!

  • Fatum's Avatar
    22,231 posts since Aug '05
  • Lorry`'s Avatar
    4,928 posts since Oct '05
    • It is either now or never.

      Which one you want?

      Sometimes you need to be a little thick-skinned.  teeth.png 

      You are not proposing to her right?

  • jojobeach's Avatar
    3,801 posts since Apr '07
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    parn's Avatar
    2,768 posts since May '03
    • Originally posted by Pippinpro:
      Hi, i need some advise.
      Well, I saw a girl in my lecture hall, she's sweet and my kinda dream girl.... i dun look good, nor am i rich...
      I been observing her since the start of my course.. now that my course in ending... should i approach her??
      I had the thought of appraoching her, but factors pulled me back.... prehaps she got a boyfriend etc etc...

      I dun no her name, prehaps lol i noe nothing, i only noe shes my dream girl... sad...

      What should i do.. my course is ending in a couple of days time.. maybe i might see her in the next course.. but chances of meeting is quite slim, but still, theres a chance.. i afraid if i got rejected... if we are going for different course at least i dun feel so awkward.. but if we were the same lecture.. i will be like 1 year of embarrasement...

      Question for Bros: Will you appraoch and how will you appraoch??

      Question for Sisters: When you meet such appraoch will you accept?
      Dear Brothers and Sister i need your help serious..

      How difficult can that be???

      Walk up to her, SMILE SWEETLY (GO and practise!!!), Extend thy arm, Self-intro (not a/s/l!!!!) - Your name + ask her name + "Nice to know you!!!" (Be excited about knowing her - GO and practise!!!!).

      Tooooooo easyyyyyyyyyyyy..........................after you've mastered your KUNG-FU SWEEET SMILE.

       

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    wonderamazement's Avatar
    10,785 posts since Dec '04
  • RedizAlertz's Avatar
    782 posts since Aug '07
    • Gals r flattered when there r boys who wanna b frens with them.  They like the attention whether or not u r handsome or rich.  Jus go & be one of the boys in her collections & see wat u else u can achieve from there.

  • mamamamama's Avatar
    1,446 posts since Jan '05
    • add her in friendster / facebook then get her msn contacts from there.. at least if you talk to her through the net, then wont feel so inferior or insecure ma..

      start short conversations with her first then see how things go on from there? who knows, she might start treating you as her confidant..

  • burg's Avatar
    35 posts since Jul '08
    • wait for next course, if see her again than approach. if not than too bad ah not fated and she is not ur dream girl after all.

  • Y_Y_Y's Avatar
    5 posts since Jul '08
  • dojon's Avatar
    94 posts since Mar '06
    • Aiyo... must go for it lo...

      If kanna rejected at least you tell yourself you tried your best liao ... no regrets right ?

      The worst thing is to miss chance and few years later think back and wonder what might well happen if you ask her that time.

      Slowly and step by step is the major key pal, once you rush... that's it.

      when in lecture give her eye contact lo... then when she look back then give a warm smile and nod... after few times then can say hi naturally.

      Erm... maybe you want to see if she is wearing any rings first... :D

      Edited by dojon 29 Jul `08, 11:43AM
  • ChiBet's Avatar
    924 posts since Apr '08
  • Fs4751's Avatar
    216 posts since May '08
    • bro..beauty lies in the eyes of beholder.....not handsome nvm.....just go and approach like some of our bros said earlier....rejection is normal wat.....u guy right?....must tahan all these lor....

  • Display Name's Avatar
    140 posts since May '08
    • aiyo, so shy you....
      Go make friends with her friends then you will have many chances.
      If you approach her through her friends, it wont look so sudden.
      You can do like that approach a guy friend of her for a start.
      Introduce yourself to the guy, lol.

      You must get her contact before the course end. If no contact number and email, good friend also no hope.

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