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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by viciouskitty74 @ Fri, 02 Jan 2009 12:51:59 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;Good luck.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Dont clear out your sg cpf so soon. Keep them for when you are
finally settled down there.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 02 Jan 2009 12:51:59 +0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by advinc @ Fri, 02 Jan 2009 12:44:45 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;Hi Mid9Sun, try this personal effects shipping company&lt;/p&gt;
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by redDUST @ Sat, 01 Nov 2008 11:53:50 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by Mid9Sun:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks. But when you say "look for rent in &lt;a href=
"http://www.domain.com.au/" rel="nofollow"&gt;www.domain.com.au&lt;/a&gt;
and &lt;a href="http://www.realestate.com.au/" rel=
"nofollow"&gt;www.realestate.com.au&lt;/a&gt;, not easy though."&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You mean its hard to get a good unit&amp;nbsp;at reasonable rate or
something else??&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #ff0000;"&gt;edit out&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;.
fishbuff1 covered most of your needs already....&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;good luck to your planning.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2008 11:53:50 +0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by fishbuff1 @ Sun, 26 Oct 2008 12:27:11 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by Mid9Sun:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks. But when you say "look for rent in &lt;a href=
"http://www.domain.com.au/" rel="nofollow"&gt;www.domain.com.au&lt;/a&gt;
and &lt;a href="http://www.realestate.com.au/" rel=
"nofollow"&gt;www.realestate.com.au&lt;/a&gt;, not easy though."&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You mean its hard to get a good unit&amp;nbsp;at reasonable rate or
something else??&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
im not sure about the state of rental market&amp;nbsp;now but when i
was looking for rentals last year, the viewing time is usually at
11-12noon on sat only! and we have about 5-10 couples moving like
conveyor belts thru the rental property. although the rent could be
$350per week, some might want to up the ante to secure the rental.
plus a background check and some misc stuffs.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;i didnt succeed in getting the 1st unit that i chose, in fact, i
have to view at least 20+ units and submit more than 8 applications
before i managed to secure one.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;so it is ideal that u have a car and a GPS to travel around,
this is not like SG; come out from bus stop and walk to the rental.
No! the whole place is damn huge and wide! it will be best to have
someone there to show you around initially.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 12:27:11 +0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by Mid9Sun @ Sat, 25 Oct 2008 18:02:59 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by fishbuff1:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;buy a 2nd car from a REPUTABLE car yard like scifleet, or zupps.
NEVER buy from those small timer car yard!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;get a GPS.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;apply for Tax File Number&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;get a bank account.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;apply for medicare.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;get driving license.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;look for rent in &lt;a href="http://www.domain.com.au" rel=
"nofollow"&gt;www.domain.com.au&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=
"http://www.realestate.com.au/" rel=
"nofollow"&gt;www.realestate.com.au&lt;/a&gt;, not easy though.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;above all, dont be too trusting and dont divulge too much
personal details to ANYONE!!!. privacy is paramount here so dont go
flashing your driving license to any tom's dick is hairy, unless u
are applying for&amp;nbsp;job or govt stuff, use&amp;nbsp;an "alternate"
name. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;if people ask u sensitive questions concerning money,
relationship and etc like "which company are u working in?", just
think of some other topic to divert away.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks. But when you say "look for rent in &lt;a href=
"http://www.domain.com.au" rel="nofollow"&gt;www.domain.com.au&lt;/a&gt; and
&lt;a href="http://www.realestate.com.au/" rel=
"nofollow"&gt;www.realestate.com.au&lt;/a&gt;, not easy though."&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You mean its hard to get a good unit&amp;nbsp;at reasonable rate or
something else??&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 18:02:59 +0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by fishbuff1 @ Sat, 25 Oct 2008 09:00:42 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by Mid9Sun:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;More updates.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Finally some good news. I have been granted&amp;nbsp;the provisional
PR&amp;nbsp;status for OZ with the condition that I make an initial
entry by 15 Aug 09.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Moving forward,&amp;nbsp;can you guys advise what are the things to
look out for, to avoid and also what to or not to expect in the
rental market in Sydney.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;For info, my main target is current around Paramatta area and
near the main train station (interchange) since I dont intend to
buy a car so soon.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks!!!!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;buy a 2nd car from a REPUTABLE car yard like scifleet, or zupps.
NEVER buy from those small timer car yard!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;get a GPS.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;apply for Tax File Number&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;get a bank account.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;apply for medicare.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;get driving license.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;look for rent in &lt;a href="http://www.domain.com.au" rel=
"nofollow"&gt;www.domain.com.au&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=
"http://www.realestate.com.au" rel=
"nofollow"&gt;www.realestate.com.au&lt;/a&gt;, not easy though.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;above all, dont be too trusting and dont divulge too much
personal details to ANYONE!!!. privacy is paramount here so dont go
flashing your driving license to any tom's dick is hairy, unless u
are applying for&amp;nbsp;job or govt stuff, use&amp;nbsp;an "alternate"
name. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;if people ask u sensitive questions concerning money,
relationship and etc like "which company are u working in?", just
think of some other topic to divert away.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 09:00:42 +0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by Mid9Sun @ Fri, 24 Oct 2008 13:41:06 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;More updates.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Finally some good news. I have been granted&amp;nbsp;the provisional
PR&amp;nbsp;status for OZ with the condition that I make an initial
entry by 15 Aug 09.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Moving forward,&amp;nbsp;can you guys advise what are the things to
look out for, to avoid and also what to or not to expect in the
rental market in Sydney.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;For info, my main target is current around Paramatta area and
near the main train station (interchange) since I dont intend to
buy a car so soon.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks!!!!&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 13:41:06 +0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by lostintransition @ Thu, 04 Sep 2008 14:33:05 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by viciouskitty74:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Gulp* That little!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
yup..indeed. but thing is...given that the sg banks are under super
high scrutiny and that everything is highly controlled &amp;amp;
regulated by MAS..such that the banks are highly conservative in
their investments/loans...the risks of bank failures should be
lower in singapore...than in other countries.&amp;nbsp;even if anything
were to happen to sg banks...the govt is likely to step in to
ensure that there won't be mass panic &amp;amp; hardship.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 14:33:05 +0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by viciouskitty74 @ Thu, 04 Sep 2008 13:46:45 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by
lostintransition:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
sg bank insures up to SGD20,000 of your deposit.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Gulp* That little!&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by lostintransition @ Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:03:26 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by viciouskitty74:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;My sister just kinda remined me the other day.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;She was asking for Sg local banks insurance amount.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;From what she tells me, US banks has a insured amount of your
deposits.&amp;nbsp; I think its....the banks tells them they are
insured up to 500k, then most bank users will only keep 500k i that
bank.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I told her that sg banks does not seem to have these
insurances.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
sg bank insures up to SGD20,000 of your deposit.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by viciouskitty74 @ Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:39:27 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;My sister just kinda remined me the other day.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;She was asking for Sg local banks insurance amount.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;From what she tells me, US banks has a insured amount of your
deposits.&amp;nbsp; I think its....the banks tells them they are
insured up to 500k, then most bank users will only keep 500k i that
bank.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I told her that sg banks does not seem to have these
insurances.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:39:27 +0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by gohysteria @ Wed, 03 Sep 2008 08:20:19 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by 2oz:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I am also planning to be relocating to Sydney in end'09 too. Now
trying to do homework on housing, jobs..etc.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Well Mid, my advice is not to start any big movement of bulky
personal items yet. Settle down before you make the decision on
shipping your TV, sofa etc. Its a bit of a culture shock initially
for S'porean to relocate. Some just can't get over the differences
is lifestyle and culture shock...(well just watch out for the
drunks)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I suggest you get a course in TAFE before trying out for Plumber
or Electrician. Its not the same content as those offered in ITE
here.(being a plumber also cross my mind too...haha..i hear they
pay a ton for plumber service there..\o/ )&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Anyway, have fun..ps..admin &amp;amp; clerks are paid about 60K
annual (b4 tax),accountants 120k&amp;nbsp;..&amp;nbsp;i am sure we will
find a job..finally a 9 to 5 job :DDDD&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;be positive!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Admin &amp;amp; clerks get 60k per year?? That's like wishful
thinking.&amp;nbsp;A graduate doing administrative duties will maybe
get that annual income in a few years, but def not non-grad admin
staff and clerks. 120k for accountants&amp;nbsp;also apply only
to&amp;nbsp;those established professionals with years of experiences.
Just don't want your hopes raised too high. It's&amp;nbsp;one thing to
think positive, another to be self-deceiving.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by lostintransition @ Sat, 30 Aug 2008 14:07:24 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;if it's about $$...can always assure family that you'll continue
to support them. with internet banking and stuffs...it's so easy to
transfer money even across countries. or can just continue to
maintain a local bank account to transfer money from into your
parents' account.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by fymk @ Sat, 30 Aug 2008 12:09:17 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by viciouskitty74:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
There are reasons why they may be concerned.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;1. You did not make any commitment to still support your
mother.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;2. You did not convince your sister that you will still be a
good son and wont dump your aged old parents on her.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;3. You have the finances to go over Australia and wont need
financial support from your families.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;4. You did not at least give them a couple of hope that the
family can get together or holiday together either in sg or oz.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don't see how parents should hold back their children if it is
for the better. Frankly it is all money issues.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;My parents backed me up but had no expectations for me to secure
their residency in Australia. I became their sponsor&amp;nbsp; because
my dad was so keen on it and I didn't want to disappoint him.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by fymk @ Sat, 30 Aug 2008 12:05:28 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by Mid9Sun:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Yeah... already decided..they like it or not..I will move and
then prove that I am not abandoning them....&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I brought both my parents over , secured a bond for them to skip
the queue. They thought I will run off but I did not. Just need
time.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;End of issue from my aunts and uncles. Only issue is my
grandmother who thinks I am taking one of the primary sources of
her allowances away.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by Mid9Sun @ Fri, 29 Aug 2008 17:32:58 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;Yeah... already decided..they like it or not..I will move and
then prove that I am not abandoning them....&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2008 17:32:58 +0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by viciouskitty74 @ Fri, 29 Aug 2008 17:11:45 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by Mid9Sun:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Well I already stated that she's extremely welcome to go with
me, but of cos she turned me down flatly and no way I can get&amp;nbsp;
her to move her butt even an inch.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I even roped in my relatives who are all supportive and did even
tried to talk to them both. So far my mom seems to softened her
stand but my sister said " I cannot stop him but I wont give my
blessings" ...&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;..zzzzzzzzzz&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
I still say your sister has a reason to be insecure.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Your mother, like all mothers used to living in Singapore, will
never agree to move over with you.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But 3 months out of a year, she will not mind going there for a
'holiday'.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When you have kids, then you can most likely have her stay about
6 months to a year there.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Give your sis some time.&amp;nbsp; She will drop by for holidays
eventually. Especially if you are buying the air ticks.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Heck, I steadfastly refused to go overseas about 8 years
back.&amp;nbsp; But now i am uprooting myself, so never say never.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by Mid9Sun @ Fri, 29 Aug 2008 17:06:00 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;Well I already stated that she's extremely welcome to go with
me, but of cos she turned me down flatly and no way I can get&amp;nbsp;
her to move her butt even an inch.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I even roped in my relatives who are all supportive and did even
tried to talk to them both. So far my mom seems to softened her
stand but my sister said " I cannot stop him but I wont give my
blessings" ...&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;..zzzzzzzzzz&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by viciouskitty74 @ Fri, 29 Aug 2008 16:48:48 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;Things was really bad when I was left alone with my mother.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There was some talk that her misbahaving is probably due to
menopause and I tolerated as much as I could.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It was so bad, that when my sister request for my mothers aid in
USA, thus taking my mother off my hands for 3 months at a stretch,
it was a godsend.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Maybe you might consider sharing your mother between Oz and sg
and discussing with your sis on it?&amp;nbsp; It helps to assure your
sister that you both work out a timetable after you settled in
Oz.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Your mom may benefit from a change in enviornment as well as
some hope that she &amp;amp; your sis is losing you forever.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by Mid9Sun @ Fri, 29 Aug 2008 16:42:03 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;"well every house has a difficult sutra"&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In my case, they are more worry about practical reasons and $$$
is not an issue.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;My sis is afraid that she cannot cope if she's alone taking care
of mom who is suffering from&amp;nbsp;some depression and from her
angle, i am selfish son/bro who abandon the aging mom and expect
the sister to take care&amp;nbsp;of dear mother.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I cannot fault her for such reasoning which&amp;nbsp;I might feel
the same if the table is turned&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Other things I dont worry much, but this one weighs heavily on
me.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by viciouskitty74 @ Fri, 29 Aug 2008 15:02:36 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;Sorry about my harshness.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As a sister, I have more then my fair share of my baby brother
punking out on these overseas issues.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here's one example of a conversation that totally got to me.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Me: Why dont we try, maybe give about $100 a month into mom's
account from now on.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Ss: I am a housewife, where to get $$$?&amp;nbsp; besides baby
brother is responsible for her since she sold her flat to finance
his overseas studies.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Bro: I am a student now.&amp;nbsp; Where got $$$, when I return
after getting the degree, whcih none of you sisters can ver
get.&amp;nbsp; I can 'guang zhong yeow zhu'&amp;nbsp; brings honour to the
family and let mom live inluxury in condos.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;..........&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;todate.&amp;nbsp; that 'guan zhong yeow zhu' fella since 2004 still
has mother living in a rented hdb room in punggol.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by Mid9Sun @ Fri, 29 Aug 2008 14:56:51 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by viciouskitty74:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
There are reasons why they may be concerned.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;1. You did not make any commitment to still support your
mother.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;2. You did not convince your sister that you will still be a
good son and wont dump your aged old parents on her.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;3. You have the finances to go over Australia and wont need
financial support from your families.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;4. You did not at least give them a couple of hope that the
family can get together or holiday together either in sg or oz.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Yeah I gave all the assurances and promises as I can. But I
guess its hard to convince them still since its all still empty
words. So I can only prove it in deeds.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Guess only can prove to them give time ... ..haizzz&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by viciouskitty74 @ Fri, 29 Aug 2008 13:41:12 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by Mid9Sun:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;Furthermore, my mom and sister are not supportive. Lots of
stress and pressure on this.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
There are reasons why they may be concerned.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;1. You did not make any commitment to still support your
mother.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;2. You did not convince your sister that you will still be a
good son and wont dump your aged old parents on her.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;3. You have the finances to go over Australia and wont need
financial support from your families.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;4. You did not at least give them a couple of hope that the
family can get together or holiday together either in sg or oz.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by Mid9Sun @ Fri, 29 Aug 2008 00:02:45 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;Well, I am 30+ so this is the turning point in life where I
decided to change the course of my life.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Like you said, I am going over to do my best and try thinks out.
...&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When you be going?? Sydney too?&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>Advice: For Relocation to Australia in Jan 09 replied by Nica_TW @ Thu, 28 Aug 2008 22:57:50 +0800</title>
      <description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_from"&gt;Originally posted by Mid9Sun:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="quote_body"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Ok dear people, some updates:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I have done my medical check up and also gotten my "CNCC" from
the police stating that I am a good boy..lol....by monday,
will&amp;nbsp;complete the visa application process and should be
hearing from the oz high com in 3-6 mths. Hopefully, will get the
visa.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;However, recently there's a lot of negative comments and remarks
about my decision to move from people around me. Furthermore, my
mom and sister are not supportive. Lots of stress and pressure on
this.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Anyway, I need comments, advice and suggestions&amp;nbsp;about to
renting a place which is affordable and near a train station in
case I not getting a car anytime soon. I have some on the list
like, Strathfield. Paramatta, Epping, Hurstville.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks in advance.....&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Mid9Sun, How old are u?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;If u are still young and have
the profession, then u can give it a try.&amp;nbsp; If things are not
going well as what u expect, just back sg.&amp;nbsp; You have to make a
clear mind.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I also make my mind... will fly to aust soon.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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